Need = I should get Married ; Want = I want to marry HER.
A little perspective, every day
Some thoughts
are worth
keeping.
A collection of truths from everyday life. Pause for a moment. Find a new perspective. Keep what stays with you.
READ SLOWLY. REFLECT OFTEN.
psychology
“Indulge in your hobbies than waste time.”
life
“That which doesn't kill me, makes me stronger.”
A moment of perspective
“Life is like an ice-cream enjoy it before it melts”
— Self
Collected along the way.
The open collection
A thought to take with you.
Life lessons, passing observations, and ideas worth returning to.
33 thoughts to explore
Who arouses whom and how much ? Negotiation and Manipulation works on it. Less aroused ends in better deals.
Materialistic people are your friends till you dont interfere with their sense gratification
Always try to be in touch with them, whom you want near by on the death bed .
Life is like an ice-cream enjoy it before it melts
— Self
Its easier to rear and grow up a girl child than a baby boy. - Energy and Resources required are lesser.
Don't try to outbeat people on conventional path; Build Your Own Path.
Real problems of life : Birth, Old Age, Disease, Death. Everyone has to go through them, and no one can avoid them.
World is designed in such a way that we have a constant supply of stressors. [Dukhalayam Ashwastam]
That which doesn't kill me, makes me stronger.
Aim of any activity is often PCDU : Prediction , Control, Determination, Understanding
Who is Happy? Is richest man free of stressors ? Death ? Old Age ? Diseases ? Yes money can provide strength to counter the stressors but can't eliminate them completely. Eg. Rich have constant fear from own people.
Success : Clear Intention + Committed Effort + Detachment to reward.
Be in company of those who are trustworthy and build your confidence.
Eating, Sleeping, Mating and Defending is common to animals and humans. Its search for truth, or higher inquiry that makes us more of human and less of an animal.
If lost faith in the future, nothing to live for, then it was observed in the concentration camps, that immunity dropped, sickness prevailed, and death followed.
Learn to face your fears , You will never be the same you again!!
Young should envy the Old. Instead of possibilities in the future, they have realities in the past and no one can remove them. It's stored in the past forever. Life is an ongoing reel, and its upto us what we make of it. Past stores the present forever
Depression is the inability of the person to construct his future. Those who dont have higher goals are more prone to Depression.
Whatever you start, Give it a Closure. - Release the energy | Mental thoughts about it | Always have some free energy.
Most Indian Men are psychologically impotent; They can't take strong decisions. (Maa ka anchal dur na ho jaye)
Fear brings about that which one is afraid of and hyper - intention makes impossible what one wishes. e.g. Trying desperately to fall asleep makes it harder.
Weapon Effect : When you have a weapon, chances are that you will use it.
There are two main ways to control people : Love and Fear.
There are only two races of men - Divine and Demoniac.
Money is important but shouldn't become the top priority. Top priority must be to find out the ultimate Truth.
Existential Vacuum - Man got choices to make but no instinct to tell him what he has to do here, he doesn't even know what he wishes todo; Hence, does what others do or does what others wish him to do.
One who is good to you but bad to others can become bad to you any moment.
Indulge in your hobbies than waste time.
He who has a "WHY' to live for can bear almost any "HOW" .
Never share your pain with so many, people will actually enjoy your pain.
Ultimately we will die. We keep planning so much for our comfortable stay here, but reality is we will be kicked out painfully anytime. Yes death is always painful.
Intimacy : One with Whom I can be what I am. [Guhyam Akhyati Prayachti]